The most important decision you or your family will make during our “Higher” emphasis will be the decision about your own giving commitment. How do you know what God wants for you to give? Here are some suggestions to consider.

As you pray about your part, keep in mind the Biblical theme “equal sacrifice, not equal gifts.” Obviously, everyone doesn’t have the ability to give the same amount. However, God does want all of us to make a genuine sacrifice for him. “I will not sacrifice to the Lord an offering that cost me nothing.” (2 Samuel 24:24)

Remember, your “Higher” commitment can include both a cash gift (now) and a 12 month giving commitment. Most of us can give far more than we initially think by giving it over a one year period. More importantly, you will grow spiritually if you develop the habit of consistent, weekly giving. God says, “On every Lord’s Day you should put aside something from what you have earned during the week, and use it for this offering. The amount depends on how much the Lord has helped you earn.” (1 Corinthians 16:2)

 

Each of us has a choice to make.

I can give based on reason. This means I look at what I have, figure out what is “reasonable,” and commit that amount. It takes no faith to give by reason. Reason simply asks, “What can I afford?”

I can give based on revelation. This means I determine my gift by praying, “Lord, what do you want to give through me?” This kind of giving requires faith. The Bible says, “Without faith it is impossible to please God.” (Hebrews 11:6) That is why God honored the Macedonians: “They gave not only what they could afford, they gave more than they could afford.” (2 Corinthians 7:3) God promises to bless us when we give in faith. 2 Corinthians 9:8 says, “God is able to make it up to you by giving you everything you need and more so there will not only be enough for your needs, but plenty left over to give joyfully to others.”

 

Suggested steps for determining God’s will

Begin by praying every day, “Lord, I want to give sacrificially in a way that stretches my faith. Now please show me how.” If you are married, pray together with your spouse.

Don’t rush your decision. Give yourself time to hear from God. You will find that the longer you genuinely pray, “Show me how,” the more ways God will show you, and you will be able to give more than the first amount that popped into your head.

Plan a family conference to discuss ways to give. Ask your family members to suggest creative ideas. Be sure to involve your children, no matter how young they are. This is a great opportunity to teach generosity and faith to your whole family. Allow this to be an experience in which God’s Spirit guides you through the facts and faith journey.

 

Decide as a family the total amount you will give and pray a commitment similar to this:

“Father, this is a big step for us. We are asking you to strengthen our faith and help us grow spiritually through giving. We thank you for all you have given us. We know we wouldn’t have anything if it weren’t for you. We want to be cheerful givers. We are claiming the promises you have made in your Word that you will take care of our needs if we trust you. Thank you for this opportunity to grow, and thank you for our church community. In Jesus’ name, Amen!”